Wednesday, August 26, 2009

You Can Not Please All

A friend of mine said how frustrated to please all. There's always something, trivial or not, ruined the day. It made me think that it's impossible to please all, our family, friends, colleagues, neighbors, etc. All we can do is to put our best in associating with others. When our best is not enough to someone else but in favor of the majority, then we tell that person 'sorry but i am what i am, and i cant make you to like me. So did you. And that's ok'. The problem arises when someone force us to put our best based on his/her personal point view while he/she does not give such trait into the relati�nship. It means we can not expect someone to always please us or succumb to all our demands and desire. There's always 'a take and give' in any kind of relationship. When you give kindness, you'll get affection. When you give seed of hate and selfishness, you'll get the same thing. If you were mean, then you had no right to expect someone be kind at you. There's always consequences in any action we take. And i believe if we gave the best in us, we'll get the same treatment.

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